Players: Husband and wife.
Activists: Both.
Obsessive-compulsives have fixations at this stage, for they usually had parents who were obsessive-compulsives and chastised the kids severely any time they got very dirty. This also corresponds to the potty-training (anal) stage, when children like to play with their feces and are scolded by parents for that. Second, the game gives the compulsive slob more than he or she bargained for, and challenges the rigidity of the obsessive neatnick. This experience creates stress and also liberates them from their guilt-ridden defensive attitudes. When two people are sitting in a tub with (the perfect example) egg on their faces, all pretenses quickly fall aside.
One thing usually leads to another, and the wrestling turns to erotic play and then to sex. It also leads to a fresh look at one’s general modes of relating and of sexuality.
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