You should first take in everything we have said about self-masturbation for women.
If your partner is used to masturbating herself, she will guide you and show you the kind of caressing she wants. Her hand will guide yours towards the exact spots that excite her. She will tell you if she wants you to go faster or slower, press harder or stroke very lightly.
With practice in the course of living together the man will be able to perfect his masturbation technique to give his lover maximum pleasure. She will reach orgasm faster than if she masturbated herself because of the additional excitement of her partner’s kissing and caressing.
The man can also insert a finger or two into the vagina while stimulating the clitoris and slide them in and out, especially against the front wall of the vagina. This massage is very important, since the famous “G spot”, which can itself provide a whole succession of violent orgasms, lies about a finger’s length along the vagina wall.
For the man to properly stimulate the G spot, however, it is almost indispensable for the woman to teach him where to find it; until it has already been stimulated long enough to make it stand out from the vagina wall, there is no way of finding it simply by feel. Here even more than with the clitoris, it is the woman who has to guide her partner.
As a final note on female masturbation, let us add that the hands are not the only means of masturbating. Women sometimes rub against the edge of a bath or the back of a chair, or use a brush handle, a candle or a vibrator (see the chapter on sex aids).
And lastly there is the thigh-crossing method. The woman crosses her legs very high up the thigh so that the whole genital area is squeezed. At the same time she contracts her vagina repeatedly, as if to stop the flow during urination. This way she can reach orgasm without hands or aids.
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